When I first joined the network marketing industry almost 7 years ago, I always wondered why network marketing doesn't get the same level of respect as other business models.
Here you have an industry that has millions of participants all over the world. Tens of thousands of people have been able to earn a full time income. Thousands of people have been able to earn a 6 figure income. Hundreds of people have been able to earn a 7 figure income. And a select few have even been able to earn an 8 figure income.
However, some events over the last several weeks and months have really allowed me to see why network marketing doesn't get respect. I believe it is the same reason why religious people don't get respect and why politicians don't get respect.
Network Marketers Don't Practice What They Preach!
Here we have an industry that is SUPPOSE to be about personal development. It is SUPPOSE to be about building people up. However, everywhere you turn, all you see is people engaging in behavior that clearly lacks the personal development we profess to preach. Everywhere you turn, all you see is people tearing people down instead of building people up.
Recently, one of my colleagues in the network marketing industry reached a certain milestone in her business and I congratulated her for it. She is NOT a part of my company. She is in a different company, with a completely different product line from what I am marketing. Yet it wouldn't surprise me if I was the only distributor outside of her company who congratulated her.
Why? Because instead of being happy for her success, many distributors would see her success as a threat to their success. ESPECIALLY if they are in a company that markets the same type of product that she does.
In addition to that, a number of people this year recently made a decision to resign from the network marketing company that I am a part of and work with other network marketing companies. It was very interesting to see responses as these people made their decisions.
Some people in my company felt that because these people left, they needed to DEFEND the opportunity available in my company. Some of the people that left felt the need to publiclly trash the company that they just left and even specific individual distributors within the company. Others felt the need to publiclly trash the people that left.
Is this what the network marketing industry is all about?
In The Business School For People Who Like Helping People by Robert Kiyosaki, chapter 5 talks about one of the values of network marketing. He identifies this value as "Friends Who Will Pull You Up, Not Push You Down."
Yet, to ME it seems like that friendship in this industry is conditional. I am only your friend if you are in the same business as me. If I leave to do another business, I'm not your friend anymore. If you leave to do another business, I'm not your friend anymore.
This is not what I was sold when I joined this industry. However, unfortunately, this seems to be the reality in this industry.
I have friends that are in different companies from the one that I'm in currently. I have friends in the company that I'm currently in. I also have friends that WERE in the company that I'm in that have left, but I still consider them my friends. I even have friends that have left the industry all together. That's because I was always taught that friendship was based on the quality of the relationship that you have with that person, not whether or not they agree to build the same business that I build.
If we in the network marketing industry ever want the industry to get the respect it deserves, we must first become WORTHY of that respect. It starts with actually PRACTICING the so called PERSONAL DEVELOPMENT that we preach!
I'll conclude this note with some thoughts:
#1 - People are going to leave your company. It's a fact of life. This doesn't make them bad people. It doesn't make them hypocrites. It simply means that they no longer have the vision for the company that they had when they first got started FOR WHATEVER REASON and have decided to part ways and go with something that they have a vision for.
So unless those people are raiding your organization in violation of their distirbutor agreement, wish them well and keep on moving. Because the bottom line is NONE of those people are responsible for providing for you and your family. That is YOUR responsibility and YOUR responsibilty alone. Your kids don't want to hear that the reason why you are getting evicted out of your house is because JOE HEAVY-HITTER left your company and now you can't make money anymore.
#2 - Making a decision to leave a company can be a difficult decision. If that's a decision that you choose to make, go ahead and do what you have to do and move on. It's completely unnecessary to publicly trash the company that you left or individual distributors within that company. I read "How To Win Friends & Influence People" many times and I don't seem to recall that being in one of the chapters!
Now you might have left because you saw some very serious concerns about the viability of the business model. Heck, you might not have even left on your own accord, you might have even been terminated. Quite frankly, you might have even been terminated unjustly.
You might have friends in your former company that you are concerned about. However, I can assure you, trash talking your previous company is NOT going to make your friends see your point of view. If ANYTHING it's going to make them MORE likely to RESIST your point of view.
#3 - To everything there is a season and a time for every purpose in heaven. Not everybody is going to be involved in a particular network marketing company or even the industry for the rest of their lives.
For instance, I can tell you right now, I will NOT be actively involved in network marketing forever. I love the industry. I love the relationships that I have built because of it. I love the personal development that I have experienced because of it.
However, some of the goals that I have in life, being a distributor for a network marketing company isn't going to be enough to make these goals a reality. My wife and I plan on being on the Forbes 400. Everybody on that list is either the owner of a billion dollar business or a billion dollar investor, NOT a distributor for a network marketing company. So in order for that goal to become a reality for us, we will have to eventually make the transition to a vehicle that can make the Forbes 400 a reality.
I hope that when I do make the decision to leave that my relationship with you wasn't based on my allegiance to a company or an industry.
Finally, recongize that opportunity is unlimited! Opportunity is not ONLY found in ONE specific network marketing company. Opportunity isn't ONLY found in JUST the network marketing industry. When you have TRUE opportunity, it does not get diminished just because others don't value the opportunity. In fact, some of the greatest opportunities in world history were not recognized by the VAST MAJORITY of people.
Let us practice what we preach in network marketing. When we do this, I believe the industry will get far more respect than it gets now.
And if you agree with me, please share this with your colleagues in the industry. The more people that embrace this message, the more attractive our industry will be to the masses.
Sunday, October 2, 2011
Why Network Marketing Doesn't Get Respect
Friday, October 15, 2010
The Death Of Hype In Network Marketing Online?
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It's no secret that there has been a lot of hype in network marketing online. Some of the claims that people in the industry out there are making is absolutely ridiculous. Because of this, I believe that prospects and distributors in the industry are at a point where they are beginning to start tuning out the hype and looking for leaders who can demonstrate value that is realistic and achievable.
Wednesday, October 13, 2010
The Importance Of The First Pay Check
Would you like to have a larger amount of your organization stick around and build the business? If so, the best way to do this is to focus on getting your new distributors their first pay check. This one simple action is in my opinion the biggest contributing factor towards retaining distributors on your team.
Tuesday, October 12, 2010
The Tortoise and the Hare In Network Marketing
Have you ever heard of the children's story called The Tortoise and the Hare? If you haven't, I've included a link to the story. Please read the story first and then continue reading this blog because you will need to be familiar with the story first before you can understand the points that I'm going to make as to how this correlates to building a network marketing business.
Wednesday, September 15, 2010
What Does A Day In The Life Of A Part Time Distributor Look Like?
One of the most common questions asked by distributors is what should your day look like when you are building your network marketing business on a part time basis? I decided to give you some insight into a typical day for myself and many of my fellow distributors who are building a business successfully part time.
Tuesday, September 14, 2010
Should You Get A Job?
A lot of distributors get started in the network marketing industry because they want to quit their jobs and create a lifestyle of time freedom and financial independence. However, when you are first getting started in the industry it can take some time before you start to experience the success that you are looking for.
Monday, September 13, 2010
What A Balanced Network Marketing Compensation Plan Looks Like
This weekend my company just announced some modifications to the compensation plan that I am very excited about. I've noticed over the last couple of years that the compensation plan, although great, could have been a lot more motivating and rewarding to the sales force, if a few simple modifications were made.




